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- Luna

Dear GlitterSpa,

Ok, I like this boy, but friend (whos a guy) told him I liked him. Now I know my friend has a little thing for me. But anyways, he had been telling me that my crush thinks I am crazy and that he told my friend that he wants me to ignore him! So I did it when my crush sat RIGHT next to me. My crush asked, "Why are you so quiet?" and I was like, "nothing" and then I turned my head! So I guess he got pissed and from then on he wouldn't sit near me or even sit across from me or anything! He didn't know why I was mad at him, because he didn't say those mean things! My friend had made them up to ruin things! A week passed. A different friend told my crush to say sorry to me, and so he did. I asked "Did you only say sorry because my friend told you to?" and he said "Yeah, but I am sorry." So I looked kind of disappointed! But then I realized that he really meant it, because of my friend! So I have to say sorry! But I really like him, and I can't just go up to him! I bet he is waiting! My problem is, I want to know if we still have a chance. I only have a couple more weeks! So I have to say sorry soon, but I wanna ask him out! I don't want to be rejected, it would be my 3rd time! And the guy before Bob was voted most attractive, and he had liked me for a bit, but my other friend told him I hated him, so that ruined everything! Anonymous

Dear Anonymous,

Anyway.... ok. It was kind of mean what your friend did, but he did it and you can't change that. You should go and talk to him about that. He may or may not listen to you. Anyway, if your crush truly did mean he was sorry, then that is a good thing. What is wrong with saying sorry? If your friend led you to think things that weren't true, then you probably are sorry that you said them, right? If you are, then you should go right up to him the first chance you get and tell him that you really and truly are sorry and that you would like to go out with him. Time is short, so you should do it as soon as possible.

I agree, getting rejected is a scary thought. But what is there to lose? You may feel sad because you did want to go out with him, but then again, you will have lots of crushes throughout your life. If he says he doesn't want to go out with you, then that is a sign that he isn't the right guy for you. You just have to keep on searching.

I once read a [true] story about a girl who, at a dance, wanted to ask this really cute guy to dance. All her friends did, too, but she was the only one who had the guts too. He rejected her, but she had suceeded in not getting a guy to dance with, but in trying to make things happen. As it turned out, another cute guy asked her to dance.

No matter what you decide to do, things will turn out for the best [eventually]. Believe me.

Good luck! ~*Luna*~

Dear GlitterSpa,

Today after school, I found out my crush liked me as a friend...but early that day he said he might go out with me! My friend kept on asking him if he would, but I don't want him to go out with just becasue my friend kept asking him! Should I go up to him and get the story straight? Anonymous

Dear Anonymous,
In my opinion, he has to tell you in person that he will go out with you. In this case, I would stick to getting the story straight before doing anything else. Go up to him and ask if he really does want to go out with you (not just because your friend pestered him). If he says yes, then great! If not, sorry. It may be hard to do, but then again life is hard. Cooki

Dear GlitterSpa,

Ok, my firend asked if my crush would go out with me, but he didn't say anything. So she asked, "Is that a Yes?" He said no, so she asked is that a No, but he said No! I was soo happy. Now I know another girl likes him but I don't know who! Should I try to get with him? And how? Do you think that is a little sign that he has interest in me? Anonymous

Dear Anonymous,

About if it is a sign that he might like you: you can never tell for sure, but I am almost totally sure that it is a sign that he doesn't dislike you (and that is good! It means that either he really likes you, likes you as a friend, or doesn't care either way). At least he doesn't HATE you!

If you really like him, you should definetily try to get with him. How? If you read down to some of the first guy help emails+responses, you will find the answer. Cooki

Dear GlitterSpa,

My "crush" doesn't like me! I am so sad, but I am getting over him bit by bit. Now everyone thinks I like him while I don't: I like his friend now! What should I do? Anonymous

Dear Anonymous,

Oh dear, rumors, rumors, rumors. They are hard to get rid of. What I would do is go along with all the rumors, and if someone asks you, "Are you going to ask him out?" or something like that that has to do with him, just say no. It may take a while, but after a while people will realize that you don't like him anymore. If people are talking about how you like him and you overhear, but into their conversation if you are not already in it and say, "Um... excuse me, but I think you have the facts a little wrong. I USED to like my old crush, but I don't anymore." People should know that you don't like him after a while, and then things will be all cleared up. Luna

Dear GlitterSpa,

Ok, my crush now knows I like him! Now 7 other people know too! All thanks to another girl; she told 2 more people! But besides that I don't know if he likes me! When my friend told him I like him, he said, "I know," and smiled, but I don't know if he likes me....! I've been flirting, so what do I do now? Anonymous

Dear Anonymous,

I would suggest that you get one of his friends (girl or boy, doesn't matter), and ask them to ask him whether he likes you or not. They'll ask him, and he may or may not tell, but my experience is that it works most of the time. You have to make sure though that Fred doesn't have any idea that you are behind the asking, or else he will definetely not tell (or tell the truth). Make it seem like the friend is just trying to have a nice conversation like he or she normally would with him. I hope this works! Luna

Dear GlitterSpa,

Ok there is this guy at school! I like him a lot!!! How do I tell him without me being embaressed?? Anonymous

Dear Anonymous,

Try a little subtle flirting at first to see how he responds. As the days go on, be all sweet, bat your eyelids, joke around, etc. See if he responds positively. There is no use in working up courage to tell him and having him diss you. Try to find out if it is possible if her likes you before opening your heart.
Good luck! Hugs 'n Kisses